Why Child Afraid to go to "New School" Alone?

Sitting here dear, close to your new friends. Let's first get acquainted with her, "said my mother". I do not want the mother, (looking down behind her back and hold the hand of the mother). unfortunately, you're old school, be brave dear, mother dear had to work later the same here to learn and play your friend's apartment. "Mom said." But it must be accompanied by mothers, mothers do not go yeah, here alone, accompanied by the school principal dsys mother, "I said".
That's the experience I've ever experienced when I first set foot in school. As is often experienced by children in general, are starting to adapt to the new world, especially the world of school must have experienced the same thing. However, there are also children who brave and cool-ignore it with the new environment. They can easily get acquainted with his new friends without fear and shame. But the name of the children, must also have a different nature and character. Well, as parents we should need to know what the cause and help children to socialize and adapt :) ... lol
Of some of the articles that I've read (most nearly similar as well with my first experience ... hhhe). Here are the characteristics of children who are afraid to school:
a. Physical characteristics, sometimes kids want to set up a new school (like me), was awakened early by parents, have started complaining either abdominal pain, dizziness, felt like backwards (reason ya). Sometimes've arrived at the school entrance fence so no one said he wanted to vomit, abdominal pain and so on.
b. Another characteristic is crying, do not want to part with their parents (yeah exactly the same to me). For the shuttle might come for a ride to car pool also has begun to fear and crying.
c. It could also be that was not wet so wet (if that's baseball lo)

School children fear usually caused by:
a. For children who first entered the school eg play group or kindergarten it is long enough to experience parental separation, this being a bad thing for the kids.
b. Entry in a new environment that is not known at all, new friends, new teachers, new office. Thus it raises anxiety or loss of a sense of security in children.
c. For those who have experience of the school may face a stern teacher, teacher scolded or reprimanded.
d. Have friends who are aggressive, so he was in school were beaten or threatened with certain things.
Well, from the explanation that we came to know that the main problem the child is frightened, frightened child exploring a new world. Frightened, insecure, embarrassed if a friend or low self-ridicule is a normal felt (for ever so the kids must have felt). The children are in the process to about oneself and the surrounding environment. They tend to imitate of what they see, hear and feel. Fear and shame is their spontaneous reaction to what they experienced. This is a natural process that does not need to worry about. Fear, shame and lack of confidence is the basic character of human truth. The children just need support, encouragement, praise accordance with its development. Many ways to try to revive confidence in the children. Let the kids get used to receiving ridicule from friends because it is one of the external stimulus that will develop the child's personality. We need to straighten the child's mind that mocking is negative through concrete explanation understandable because at the time the child demanded to be able to manage the boos into something positive. The more important thing to do is try to explore the child's feelings if the feelings negatf it appears. With the child expected to learn to be open and express their feelings and at the same time releasing negative feelings.
So, if you've got kids who are ready to enter kindergarten, mothers should be understanding towards their children, teach children to adapt to the brave new world